Walking into an escort meeting can feel a bit nerve‑wracking, especially if you’re new to the scene. The good news? A few simple rules keep things comfortable for both you and the escort. Follow these tips and you’ll avoid awkward moments, build trust, and have a better time.
Start with clear, polite messages. State what you’re looking for, ask about rates, and confirm the location. Avoid vague language – the escort needs to know your expectations to see if they match their services.
Respect the escort’s response time. If they take a few hours to reply, don’t flood their inbox. A single follow‑up after a day is enough. This shows you value their time.
When discussing money, be upfront. Ask about extra fees for travel, late night hours, or special requests. Paying the agreed amount before the appointment (or having a clear payment method ready) prevents misunderstandings later.
Confirm the meeting details at least a few hours before. A quick "Looking forward to our 8 pm meet at the bar" reassures both parties and reduces the chance of a no‑show.
Arrive on time. If you’re running late, send a brief apology and estimate your arrival. Being punctual shows respect; being late can make the escort feel unsafe or rushed.
Mind your boundaries. The escort will outline what’s allowed and what isn’t. Stick to those limits unless you both agree to change them. Consent isn’t just a buzzword – it’s the foundation of any good encounter.
Keep the conversation light and friendly. Ask about their preferences, not their personal life. Compliments are fine, but don’t objectify or make them feel like a prize.
Hygiene matters. Fresh breath, clean clothes, and a tidy appearance make a positive impression. If you’re planning a longer session, bring a clean towel or ask if the escort prefers one.
When it’s time to finish, follow the agreed exit plan. If you want to tip, do it discreetly and in cash if possible. A thank‑you note or a short text after the meet can go a long way in building a good reputation.
Remember, an escort is a professional providing a service. Treat them with the same courtesy you’d expect from anyone you’re paying for. Politeness, honesty, and clear communication keep the experience smooth for both sides.
Got more specific questions? Check out our other guides on booking safe escorts in East London, reading real client reviews, and choosing the right massage service. Each article dives deeper into a part of the encounter, helping you feel confident from the first message to the final goodbye.
By following these etiquette basics, you’ll avoid common pitfalls and enjoy a respectful, enjoyable time with London’s escort community.
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